24个育儿妙招.doc

24个育儿妙招 To Be Friends Or Not To Be Friends.? 做朋友或不做朋友 The best secret to raising children isnt what to do, but what not to do. Do not act like their friend. You can be loving, you can be caring, but you are not their friend, per se! You are an authority figure, and you must remain thus! Many parents make the mistake of treating their children as if theyre friends, which leads to confusion in the childs mind when situations call for discipline. Stay the authoritarian but always exercise law with mercy. 育儿的最大秘诀不在于做什么， 而在于不做什么。别表现得跟他们是朋友似的。你可以表示你的关爱、关心， 但就本身而言你不是他们的“朋友”。你是（家庭中的）权威人物，你得保持如此。很多父母会犯这样的错误：他们以对待朋友的方式来对待孩子，这在一些需要纪律的情况下，会导致孩子头脑中的混淆。保持权威状态， 但永远宽容执法。 Discipline Is The Cornerstone Of Love And Protection.? 纪律是爱和保护的基石 It is important that kids are raised with discipline and that they understand that discipline is a parents way of showing them that they are loved and deserve to be protected from harm. 纪律在育儿过程中很重要，孩子们明白纪律是父母用于显示他们是被爱的、值得被保护而免受伤害的方式。 Spend Extra Time With Your Kids.? 花额外时间陪伴孩子 The best way to raise kids is to make sure that you spend time with them. This does not mean you have to be their best friend, but just share in their activities. The child will thank you when they are older. 培养孩子最好的方法是一定要花时间和他们在一起。这并不表示你一定得成为他们最好的朋友，只是一同分享活动的乐趣。等孩子长大时，他们会感谢你。 At The End Of The Day You Are Still The Hero.? 最终你仍是英雄 When raising kids, remember that no mater how mad they are at you, you are your kids hero. Act as you would like them to act and do not argue in front of them. Give them a wonderful wold to live in, just like you wanted to 培育孩子时，切记不管他们对你发多大的脾气，你是你孩子们的英雄。表现出你希望他们多活动，不要当着他们的面争吵。给他们一片正如你所期望的精彩的成长天地。 Get Down And Dirty.? 亲身体验 Let your children explore and get dirty. They have to find out for themselves that mud is cool and messy. 让你的孩子们去探索，去体验，要让他们自己发现泥巴是冷且脏的东西。 Use Music To Soothe and Satisfy.? 用音乐来抚慰和说服 Expose your baby to music early. Then you can use music for every occasion. It could be used from anything from helping sooth to having a dance party.