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口语突破疯狂绝招20：了解中西方文化差异，说外国人听得懂的话 Between Good Friends 还是不是好朋友 【疯狂星级】三星级 高中生级 国际公民级 【录音提示】美国播音员 录制，请全面模仿。 【疯狂短评】 我们学习语言，不但要学习语言本身，还要学习语言背后的文化。中西方有很多文化背景上的差异，如果对此一无所知，在与外国朋友交往的过程中必然会造成很多误解，闹出很多笑话。让我们来看看以下的情况。 Kim’s Note: In western culture close friends and even family members thank each other for the slightest help or favor. This is very different from China! A simple task like opening a door or filling out a form is seen as expected behavior among friends. There is no need to thank! 【Situation境遇】 An Australian man asked his Chinese friend to do him a favor. But he was puzzled by his friend’s response. 一位澳大利亚朋友找中国朋友帮忙，中国朋友的话令他有点摸不着头脑。 Australian: Will you do me a favor? 你能帮我个忙吗？ Chinese: Is it a question? 这还会成问题吗？ Australian: Please help me fill out these forms. I can’t read the Chinese characters and I am confused! I am sorry to bother you. I’ll appreciate everything you do for me.请帮我填写这些表格。我不会认中国字，这把我搞糊涂了。要麻烦你真是不好意思。我会感激你为我做的每一件事。 Chinese: Come on. Are we still close friends? 你怎么这么说呢？我们不是好朋友吗？ 【Question问题】 What did the Chinese friend mean? （中国朋友的话是什么意思？） Yes, I can help you.（可以帮忙。） Yes, my pleasure. You don’t have to feel bothered.（不必客气。） Yes, of course. Whom do you take me as?（你把我当什么人啦。） Others.（其他意思。） Suggested answer: A, B, C全对 【疯狂说明】 Between good friends, parents and children, husbands and wives, brothers and sisters, Chinese consider it unnecessary to stick to polite formulas. They seldom make compliments of each other and do not keep thanking each other all the time. They would feel uncomfortable in that way, or awkward doing this. Friends think that the relationship is getting dry, or assume that they have problems in their relationship. In English speaking countries, however, the situation is the opposite. No matter to whom, even for parents to their little child, everyone expresses thanks to those who help and offer assistance. The phenomenon is described as “acting as an example to others” and “equality of human r