BeingHonestandopen解答.ppt

Outline Language learning Check of the exercises Oral discussion Listening Song Old to New intelligent assure consist of enrich tough clarify inevitable external apply hard, difficult; strong can’t be prevented from happening clever outside request officially be made up of make sure or certain make clear, explain improve; make rich sell out to convenience stand firmly for one’s convictions be honest and open about who you really are there is no middle point 提高自己的内涵和素质 正视现实 用成熟的心态去迎接 生活的挑战 enhance one’s inner value and personal growth face the reality be mature in one’s responses to life’s challenges To Lie Or Not To Lie? —“I have already seen it.” (So that I won’t have to go and he / she would not invite me to see the movie again.) —“I have a prior engagement.” (So that I won’t have to go.) —“I will have to prepare for tomorrow’s exam.” (So that I won’t have to go.) —“It’s just a boring film. Let’s go somewhere else.” (I think he will understand me and won’t waste his time watching such a film.) —“Cherish the rest of your life. Do what you like: Traveling around the world to appreciate the beautiful scenery，talking with your relatives and friends available，enjoying all the delicious food you love or you haven’t had before, etc.”(So that the patient will face reality，enjoy life before his/her death and won’t blame me for not telling the truth.) —“You will recover soon. There is nothing serious.”(So that he/she will believe that he/she will get well， which will be beneficial.) —“You only have one month to live.” (To a person who probably still has half a year to live, so that he will build up his confidence when he finds himself still living after several months.) —“You are dying.” (To an optimistic person) or “You don′t have to worry.” (To a pessimist) —“I went shopping to buy you a present.”(So that the boss would not scold me.) —“I was late because the train