人1生中最容易犯的十个错误.doc

人一生中最容易犯的十个错误 “要是……就好了”这绝对是最悲催的一个句型。下面是你绝对会后悔的10个选择，来看看该如何避免它们： “If only…” These two words paired together create one of the saddest phrases in the English language. Here are ten choices that ultimately lead to this phrase of regret, and how to elude them: 1. Wearing a mask to impress others.为了取悦他人戴着面具生活。 If the face you always show the world is a mask, someday there will be nothing beneath it. Because when you spend too much time concentrating on everyone elses perception of you, or who everyone else wants you to be, you eventually forget who you really are. So dont fear the judgments of others; you know in your heart who you are and whats true to you. You dont have to be perfect to impress and inspire people. Let them be impressed and inspired by how you deal with your imperfections. 如果你总是戴着面具面对世界，总有一天面具下会是一个空壳。因为当你花了太多时间专注于他人对你的看法，或者其他人希望你成为怎样的人，你最终会忘记你到底是谁。所以不要害怕他人的评判，你的心里很清楚你是谁，哪些才是你真实的一面。你没有必要为了取悦他人而追求完美。用你克服不完美的方式来打动别人。 2. Letting someone else create your dreams for you.让别人来打造你的梦想。 The greatest challenge in life is discovering who you are; the second greatest is being happy with what you find. A big part of this is your decision to stay true to your own goals and dreams. Do you have people who disagree with you? Good. It means youre standing your ground and walking your own path. Sometimes youll do things considered crazy by others, but when you catch yourself excitedly losing track of time, thats when youll know youre doing the right thing. 人生最大的挑战在于发现你是谁；而第二大的挑战就是乐于接受你所发现的东西。很重要的一点在于你做出的决定能忠实于自己的目标和梦想。你周围是否有些人不同意你的决定呢？很好。这意味着你正坚定立场，走自己的路。有时你所做的事情在别人看来很疯狂，但当你兴奋地投入其中甚至忘记了时间，那时你就会知道，你正在做一件对的事。 3. Keeping negative company.和负面情绪的人为伴。 Dont let someone who has a bad attitude give it to you. Dont let them get to you. They cant pull the trigger if you dont hand them the gun. When you remember that keeping the company of negative people is a choice, instead of an obligation, you free yourself to keep the company of compassion instead of