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啥时候生二胎才是最靠谱 啥时候生二胎才是最靠谱啥时候生二胎才是最靠谱 　　Everyone asks me when I’m going to have babynumber two. My mother and father think it’s time. My mother-in-lawandfather-in-law think it’s time. Our neighbors and Stella’s revolving Chinesegrandparents think it’s time. In fact, it’s hard for me to leave the housethese days without being stopped by a random Chinese grandmother in ourcommunity to discuss the pros and cons of Baby 2. 　　好多人都问我什么时候给Stella生个弟弟或者妹妹。我的父母、公婆、邻居都觉得我该要第二个孩子了。事实上，这些天我出门工作都总被邻居家的奶奶拉住讨论生二胎的利弊。 　　My husband and I are conflicted. Baby 2 is in the future, definitely. (Possibly Baby 3, although my husband doesn’t know about that yet。) We look back on the first year of Stella’s life and remember the sleepless nights and the constant feedings. I remind my husband that he’d better be ready to take out the trash, do any heavy lifting,and bow to my every whim if I’m going to give birth to another baby- something that didn’t feel very good the first time around and I’m sure doesn’t get that much better the second。 　　我跟我丈夫在这个事情上观念并不一致。当然，我一定会有第二个孩子、第三个孩子甚至第四个孩子的。我跟丈夫会想起有Stella的第一年特别辛苦，没日没夜地照顾她。我跟丈夫说如果要生二胎他最好做好吃苦耐劳的准备，比如成堆的垃圾，干不完的体力活，还有我的各种“奇思妙想”。 　　Most parents who consider a second little bundle of joy have questions. What is the best age gap between children? Can timing reduce sibling rivalry and create a more harmonious family structure? Let’s turn to the experts to answer some common “tobaby or not to baby” questions。 　　想生二胎的粑粑麻麻有很多疑问。比如，第二个孩子跟第一个孩子差多少岁最好？孩子多了如何构建和谐的家庭氛围？让我们看看专家怎么说。 　　两年之内利弊 Less Than 2 Years Apart: 　　Pros- If you can embrace the intensity and chaos that will inevitably follow a two babies in two years, you may be rewarded within a year or so with kids who entertain each other well and are nicely in sync when it comes to toys and activities.Children born very close together can sometimes form an unbreakable bond。 　　利 如果你能适应两年之内生第二个孩子带来的所有紧张和混乱，那么你在生完的一年之内就可以享受两个孩子带来的天伦之乐。年龄相仿使他们能分享玩具一起玩游戏。孩子之间的情感纽带会更强。 　　Cons- Money. The benefit of spacing out childr