职场英语：善待他人,你也将成为更好的自己.doc

美联英语提供：善待他人，你也将成为更好的自己 分享一个免费试听课，名额有限，碰碰运气吧/test/xingzuo.html?tid=16-73675-0 If you want to know how others treat you, the best starting place is to look at how you treat others. 如果你想知道其他人如何对待你，最好的起点是看你如何对待别人。 And if you dont like the way youre treated, theres only one course of action—to change your own behavior, because you cant change anyone elses. 如果你不喜欢别人对待你的方式，只有改变自己行为这一个行动路线，因为你不能改变别人。 Relationships function like a mirror--eventually that change will reflect back onto how you are treated. 人际关系交往就像一面镜子，最终你对待别人这个改变会映射到别人怎么对待你。 Here are nine important principles to remember about how to treat others: 这里9项关于如何对待别人的重要原则需要铭记： 1. Instead of judging people by their past, stand by them and help them build their future. 1. 与其通过过去评价别人，不如与他们肩并肩帮助他们建立未来。 Everyone has a past. Some are a source of pride, and others are best left behind. But whatever their past, people do change and grow, so instead of judging, stand by and support them as they move toward their future. Treat them with respect and make their journey your own. 每人都有过去。有些是自豪之源，其他最好留在过去。但是无论他们的过去是什么，人们确实在改变和成长，所以与其评价过去，不如在他们走向未来时肩并肩地支持他们。满怀尊重地对待他们并把他们的旅程当作你自己的。 2. Listen with curiosity, speak with candor, and act with integrity. 2. 带着好奇倾听，坦白地讲话并正直地行动。 Listening and curiosity allow relationships to thrive. Speaking your truth allows people to be honest with themselves and with you, and acting with integrity keeps relationships on a high standard. Relationships need curiosity to grow, candor to deepen, and integrity to continue. 倾听与好奇让人际关系生根发芽。真实地表达让人们诚实地面对自己和你，并正直地行动保持人际关系在一个高标准。人际关系需要好奇来维持、坦率来增进、正直来继续。 3. Treat everyone with kindness--not because they are kindhearted, but because you are. 3. 友善地对待每一个人，并非因为他们心地善良，而是因为你是这样的人。 One of the greatest gifts we can give another is kindness. If someone is in need, lend a helping hand. Dont do it only for the people you like and respect--thats easy--but also for the ones who drive you crazy and those you dont even know. True kindness lies in the act of giving without the e