“分开一段时间”让关系更加紧密.doc

scare [skε?] vt. 惊吓；把…吓跑; vi. 受惊; n. ... compromise [k?mpr?maiz] vt. 妥协；危害; vi. 妥协；让步; n.... neglect [niɡlekt] vt. 疏忽，忽视；忽略; n. 疏忽，忽视；怠慢 substitute [s?bstitju:t, -tu:t] n. 代用品；代替者; vi. 替代; vt. ... scary [skε?ri, sk?-] adj. 提心吊胆的；引起惊慌的；胆小的 inevitable [inevit?bl] adj. 必然的，不可避免的 anymore [enim?:] adv. 再也不，不再 intensely [intensli] adv. 强烈地；紧张地；热情地 Taking a break help your Relationship There are times when a relationship reaches a point where one or both partners feel the need for some space and want a break from each other, believing that a break will do the relationship good. Can taking time apart from each other help your relationship or is taking a break simply a way to avoid certain issues that will still be there waiting for you when you get back together? First Tip: Do not use Breaks as a quick fix. Every relationship varies and it is important that every couple understands that taking time apart is not a substitute for fixing or solving problems, because if you part when you are having problems, they will be waiting for you when you meet again- so it is essential that you talk about your issues first before you decide a break is needed and best for the relationship. Many get scared and paranoid when their partner asks for some time alone because they fear that their partner may not love them anymore or will not come back. Though it is always possible for your partner to change their mind during the break and decide not to continue with the relationship, there is no need to fear taking the break, because the two of you would eventually have broken up anyway, if your partner was already thinking of doing so before- so it is inevitable. A Break can help you re-discover your Individual self. Many times, one or both people in a relationship will lose themselves in some way or form and will begin to feel stress and resentment in the relationship, even though it may not be about their partner personally. In every relationship, couples will compromise their differences to