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小议《诗经》中女性的依附意识 Discussion on Women’s Sense of Attachment Reflected in the Book of Songs 摘要：依附即女性对男性的依恋、留恋。中国女人对男人的依附可谓源远流长。《诗经》所描写的先秦时代，处于母系社会到父系社会的转化阶段，其中所折射的女性的依附意识，可谓是中国女性依附意识的根源。而中国几千年的封建男权社会，使女人对男人的依附意识更加根深蒂固。即便是提倡男女平等的今日，我们依然随处可见女性依附意识的踪迹。本文以女性主义视角分析了《诗经》所折射的女性的依附意识，它在夫妻分离时以思妇的依恋心态表现出来，当婚姻出现裂痕时，以弃妇的留恋心态表现出来。分析《诗经》中的女性的依附意识，不仅可对加深对中国女性主义的理解，更有助于我们思考如何实现真正意义上的中国女性解放和男女平等。Abstract：Attachment refers to women’s affection for men. In China, women’s attachment to men has a long history. The pre-Qin era during which the Book of Songs was written, is a transition period from matrilineal society to patriarchal society. Hence, women’s sense of attachment reflected in this book is the source of such sense in China. And the feudal and patriarchal society lasted for several thousands years made this sense more and more deep-rooted in China. Even today when we are advocating equality between men and women, we can still find the trace of such sense almost everywhere. The author analyzes women’s sense of attachment reflected in the Book of Songs, which was expressed differently by women missing their husbands and women deserted by their husbands. Analysis of such sense reflected in the Book of Songs will not only help us to further understand feminism in China, but facilitate us to think how to realize female emancipation and equality between men women in the real sense. 关键字：诗经，依附意识，思妇，弃妇，男女平等Key Words: the Book of Songs, Sense of Attachment, Women Missing Their Husbands, Women Deserted by Their Husbands，Equality between Men Women 女性主义（feminism）一词，最早出现在法国，意味着妇女解放。女性主义的理论千头万绪，但是归根结底就是一句话：在全人类实现男女平等。所有的女性主义理论有一个基本的前提，那就是：女性在全世界范围内是一个受压迫、受歧视的等级《诗经》中描写男女分离时女性对男性思念的诗歌很多。思念丈夫的女子，即思妇们通过不同的方式表达她们对丈夫的思念。如《卫风·伯兮》中思妇无心梳妆，《郑风·子衿》中女子等待丈夫时不停走动，《召南·草虫》中思妇幻想同丈夫见面而欣喜满足。她们思念的内容大致有以下几种：一是盼望丈夫早日归家，如《召南·殷其雷》，《王风·君子与役》。二是挂念、担心，《邶风·雄雉》中对丈夫在外孤寂生活的挂念。三是希望丈夫重德轻利，如《邶风·雄雉》。四是责备，《郑风·子衿》中责任情人失约。五是表达执着爱情，《桧风·素冠》中对白衣少年思念成疾。 《诗经》中妻子对丈夫的思念很常见，而男子思念女子则在婚前热恋时，可见在家庭中妻子依附丈夫。依附在夫妻分离时表现为思妇依恋丈夫，依恋反映了思妇的心态。在思