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成功的人很少提到的4个重要的因素 4 Important Elements Of Success People Seldom Mention 1.Your job isn’t your success. 你的工作并不是你的成功 You are your success, and what you’re successful in will vary. It doesn’t have to be your job. It could be your family, it could be your volunteer work, or your community service. Success is multi-faceted. In addition, your job may not be a direct reflection of you, your greatest strengths, or the best use of your time. Your job might not enable you to contribute to the world in a way you would like, yet so many people define themselves by their jobs, or their next big promotion. Success is a lifestyle and an attitude. 你有你的成功，你的成功也会和别人的不一样。可以不必是你的工作。可以是你的家人，可以是你志愿做的工作也可以是社区服务。成功是可以多方面的。此外，你的工作可能不会直接的反映在你身上，你的强大力量上，充分的运用时间上。你的工作可能没法让你用你喜欢的方式为这个世界做点贡献，所以很多人都局限在自己的工作中，或者局限于下一次升职。成功是一种生活方式也是一种生活态度。 2.Failure is going to happen to you. Just because you fail at something, doesn’t mean you are a failure. 失败是会有的。只是在某些事情上失败了，但并不等于你是个失败者 Failure is nothing more than useful feedback. You don’t have to be the best at everything to be the best at something. Sometimes we learn from the things we do poorly or the things we fail to do moreso than the things we excel in. 比起有用的反馈信息，失败一名不值。你不必将一切做得尽善尽美。有时候比起我们做得很好的事情，我们反而能从做得不好，或是失败的实践中吸取更多的经验。 3.People will always see your successes. They may never know about your sacrifices. 人们总是看见了你的成功，但他们可能不知道的是你为此作出的牺牲 There will always be people who think you had it easy. There were always be people who identify with you and think you had it rough. They are both wrong, and the answer is usually somewhere in the middle and defined by the individual. The truth of the matter is, no one else is going to really know how much you had to give up or overcome to get to where you are. When push comes to shove, their opinions don’t matter. What matters is what you think and feel about yourself. 总有人觉得你很容易。总有人以为很了解你，知道你经历了苦难。但他们都弄错了事实往往是基于这两者之间，并且因人而异。真实情况是，没有人知道你为此放弃了多少或者战胜多少困难才站到那里。当暴风雨来临的时候他们的一件都不重要，重要的是你的想法以及你自己的感受。 4.There are people who are