大学英语 综合教程 1 unit 1 growing up.ppt

Unit 1 Growing up Pre-reading questions What does growing-up mean to you? Growing up means independence. If people grow up ,they have to take more responsibility. increasing responsibilities When kids are growing up , a lot of problems or troubles will come up. Do you like to be a child or an adult? Is there anything in your life that has made you change much? Approaching the topic Changes When I was kid , my father used to When I grow up/ was in my teenage years, My feelings keep/remain unchanged I noticed some subtle changes over me and my parent What brings the change? The behaviors that your parents ever did which upset you Read my diary without permission/ made all decision/ beat or even scolded me/their nagging/ Why it is upsetting you a sign of distrust in kid Violate my privacy Too imposing I will never be independent from them not respect me It hurt my dignity Scenario 1: talk back when being scolded Acceptable Kids have their own dignity Have their voices heard Scolding does not help, and parents should be taught a lesson as well, even if it is the kid who did something wrong Unacceptable Give rise to more misunderstanding, could not solve the problem either Make the situation even more tense or worse It is quiet rude, impolite to do such things to those who really cares for us and try to tell us what is right and what is wrong  Scenario 2: be ashamed of parents because their dress or education received Unacceptable Parents are the ones who brought us up and support you and are the ones who you are supposed to be grateful to may be hurtful An integrate and honest person respects his parents and is proud of them no matter how they are dressed and what education they received When you feel ashamed of your parents, you are actually ashamed of yourself Scenario 3: Call the parents by the nickname Acceptable It is ok if parents feel comfortable It makes an democratic family Unacceptable there are some lines which we could not get over. P