不要把时间浪费在消极的人身上.doc

不要和那些消极的人浪费时间 You Don’t Have Time for Negative People Recently, I caught myself wasting time dealing with a negative person. 最近，我发现我在和一些思想消极的人浪费时间。 I’m not talking about a web troll or the like. It was actually a business associate who was caught making negative comments behind others’ backs. 我说的不是网络或者是类似的问题。实际上指的就是那些说丧气话的人。 Do you have to deal with a negative person that takes up too much of your day? 你遇到过类似这样会占据你很多时间的人吗？ You don’t have time for negative people in your life. 一生中没有多少时间可以浪费在这些人身上。 Negative People are a Negative Impact 消极的人会带来消极的影响 And the worst part of the episode was the individual in question got what they wanted… a reaction. 最早的部分就是那些人得到了他们想要的---一个反应。 Don’t Let the Critics Steal Your Time 不要让批评占据你的时间 They don’t have anything positive to contribute. They just want to complain. In fact, their greatest pleasure is not in their accomplishments, but in minimizing those of others. 消极的人没有任何有积极意义的贡献。他们只是想抱怨。实际上他们最大的乐趣不是他们取得多大的成就，而是将别人的成就减到最小。 Negative people don’t have anything positive to contribute. Don’t let them waste your time. 消极的人没有任何有积极意义的贡献，所以不要让他们浪费你的时间。 “The best way to deal with negative people is not to deal with them.” “应对思想消极的人的最好方法就是不和他们打交道。” It’s best to let them go on their way. 最好就是让他们走他们自己的路。 Don’t let them have your time, attention, or energy. 不要让他们浪费你的时间、注意力和精力。 Here are just a few of the Negative People You Don’t Have Time For: 这里有一些你不必和他们浪费时间的类型： Naysayers –??The naysayers are a dangerous lot because they want to destroy your dreams before they even begin. They will tell you what you can’t do and what can’t be done. The truth is that they can’t or won’t do, so they don’t want you to succeed either. ?总是投反对票的人---这类人是相当危险的。因为他们在你开始追梦之前就想让你的梦想破灭。他们会告诉你哪些事情不能做，哪些事情不应该让其发生。实际上就是他们做不到或是不会做的，所以他们也不想让你成功。 ?Complainers –?doing. They aren’t where they should be because of someone else. The rules aren’t fair. There is always an excuse.The complainers spend more time complaining than 爱抱怨的人?--爱抱怨的人会很多时间来抱怨而不是干实事。因为别人的关系所以他们总不在他们应该在的地方，这根本就是不公平的