孩子不愿意一个人睡（Children dont want to sleep alone）.doc

孩子不愿意一个人睡（Children dont want to sleep alone） We should first find out the cause of the childs fear, and then prescribe the right medicine to help the child fear. First, to understand the reasons for fear of children Childrens psychological research shows that the fear of children mainly because of the following aspects. 1. adults scare. Some parents for their children to educate the simple and convenient, often used to scare the way to deal with children, so that children act according to their will, resulting in children abnormal fear. For example, when the child cries, some parents and teachers lack the best recipe for stopping, and they pretend to wolf cry and howl and so on to scare the children. In this way, although the child was quiet for a while, but the resulting fear also retained. And if some children are afraid to go to kindergarten, it is because the children before admission, parents or other elders often use this way to educate children: if you do not listen, I will take you to the kindergarten, let the teacher to take you. 2. over protection. Many parents fear children and other children together will learn bad, or afraid of children being bullied, so let the children go out with other children play, play games together. Children lack experience with their peers, lack of skills and experience to cope with each other, and may develop interpersonal disorder and fear of interpersonal communication. In addition, children lack of communication with peers, things must contact less, therefore there will be timid and overcautious. Many children were playing together, they may be a natural, we are not afraid of dogs, and the children from the dog got to deal with dog experience; but the child withdrawn, play together with other children, will not have to experience, and may even be afraid of dogs. 3. fear may be a way for children to escape from reality or gain attention. For example, some children are afraid of kindergarten will lose the center position in t