孩子应做强抗逆力 家长警惕植入负面想法（Children should do strong resilience alert implantation negative thoughts of parents）.doc

孩子应做强抗逆力 家长警惕植入负面想法（Children should do strong resilience alert implantation negative thoughts of parents） Children should do strong resilience alert implantation negative thoughts of parents Recently by the students with suicide falls event triggered discussion in the famous forum can be heard without end, also caused the child how to frustration education and unfairness of education hot. This week, weekly invited psychological experts and psychological teachers at school, to frustration education and unfair treatment of education to elaborate their views, and gives the recipe for the fight. [data speak] Which stress events have the highest frequency? In recent years, the Shanghai Academy of education psychology department director Shen Zhifei to the city survey found that more than three thousand students: The ten primary and secondary school students in Shanghai have the highest frequency of stressful life events Sort event rate 1 failed or unsatisfactory in examination 89% 2 79.1% was misunderstood 3 conflicts with classmates or friends 73.3% 4 heavy learning burden 69.7% 5 lose face in public 57.3% 6 families exert learning pressure 53.9% There is a contradiction between the 7 families 52.9% 8 being discriminated against or indifferent 52.8% 9 beaten by parents 48.9% 10, living conditions (diet, rest, etc.) significantly worse than 44.9% There are ten stressful life events in Shanghai primary and secondary school students Sort event rate 1 failed or unsatisfactory in examination 89% 2 relatives and friends died 33.6% 3 relatives and friends are seriously ill 35.2% 4 79.1% was misunderstood 5, someone violated my privacy (such as peeping diaries, etc.) 31.6% 6 heavy learning burden 69.7% 7 entrance pressure 44.7% 8 family exerts pressure on you 53.9% 9 conflicts with classmates or friends 73.3% There is a contradiction between the 10 families 52.9% Shanghai primary and middle school students resilience status The majority of primary and middle school students in