各种原则(喜悦心)（Various principles (joy)）.doc

各种原则(喜悦心)（Various principles (joy)） 1, want to see a person, it is best to see his way of doing things to others and ideas, this will be more than he did to you when things show more real, more profound. But the problem is that people tend to miss it. When I was 2, not a person, not directly and openly against him, and others contradiction is an unwise, to learn how to avoid and prevent the occurrence of conflicts at the same time, the best way to deal with you the opposite people is to hate this feeling to others, the contradiction pass out. 3, in the back, as far as possible to say the merits of others, pay attention to their own words and deeds, speak less of other peoples bad words. Easier said than done, harder for me, and must try to correct it. 4, do not be afraid of doing wrong, some big things to think well, you must do it decisively, do not let intuition hinder you, not to inertia behind. This is the easiest thing I can do 5, after doing things, do not discuss with others, or worry about other peoples evaluation of you, not to explain to others, unless it is necessary people, do not always think over and over again. Some things, for 6, you think is profound, remind yourself in dealing with practical problems, there is no need to share with others, this is a manifestation of the quality, should learn to put some ideas choked to death in the heart, dont say out. 7, everything should be more thinking, more ideas, do not easily change their own terms and practices. 8, loopholes in the system is not necessarily a bad thing, you can seize the leadership of the way, through their own advantages and ways to make up for. 9, consider the problem of starting point in their own interests instead of their feelings, as long as the interests are not damaged, dont retaliate others, not is the highest level of relationship, dont make others think too simple, you can think of others will want to learn to stop thinking. 10, dont be afraid of others think of yourself as a foo