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After I have a general understanding about pride and prejudice, what attracts me the most is matter of marriage. The novel reflects the reality that people tend to weigh the first when it comes to the marriage. Four kind of marriage have its original figure in realistic life. Elizabeth and Darcy’s marriage is admirable and praiseworthy. Although, it seems that, they haven’t attracted anyone’s eyes. What stopped them from getting together at first? It is pride and prejudice. At the first ball, when Lizzy asked Mr. Darcy to have a dance. He refused. He didn’t think that anyone at the village can deserve him. After this, Lizzy promised not to pay attention to him anymore because of his pride. There are other two things that make the impression of the hero worse. One is that she thinks it’s he that had separated her sister and her lover. The second is that she heard of something bad, fabricated by Wickham who has contradiction with Darcy. These things make Elizabeth have deeper prejudice towards Darcy. At last, when everything comes to light, she regretted. She found that she had misunderstood him. And Darcy was not the former one any longer and had removed his pride He made an offer of marriage to her again and was accepted. On other hand, Charlotte’s marriage is the most realistic. Charlotte is Elizabeth’s best friend, but they have different choices on marriage. Although Charlotte is a well-educated girl but she doesn’t have much property. She isn’t as beautiful as other girls. She realizes that marriage isn’t equal with happiness, but it is inherently like a safe to a woman. As an already 27 years old woman, her choice of marriage is entirely out of realistic consideration. When she first met Collins, she saw his folly, and when he asked her to marry him, she also clearly know “Collin is certainly not a reasonable person, and do not let people like”. But she still accepts the proposal, for “marriage has been her goal, as to find that kind of guy, married life is