觉察心中的嫉妒（Detect the jealousy in your heart）.doc

觉察心中的嫉妒（Detect the jealousy in your heart） Jealous of Wang Xuefu 2010-04-25 14:23:44| classification awareness heart: font Tags: | posted | in Small subscription There is a deep-seated feeling in human nature called jealousy. Where did it come from? What is it intended to do? What impact does it have on humanity? What does it have to do with life growth? As a counselor, you need to understand jealousy, to be aware of jealousy, to deal with jealousy, not to be controlled or exploited by it, to attack others, and to harm yourself. This article will be divided into two parts to talk about jealousy: first, how do we understand jealousy; two, how do we deal with jealousy?. First, how do we understand jealousy? Envy for folly Bacon in on the jealous said: the Bible told us that the devil so to take advantage of the night to a weed to Medina, because he is the envy of the harvest! Indeed, as the wheat is destroyed, the jealous devil is always secretly and quietly destroying the good things of the human world! So jealousy is a dark act. What is darkness? May be a subconscious darkness, that is, people are under the control of jealousy, doing what they do not know. The Bible says, Wrath killeth the foolish man, envy slays (Peter 5:2). Therefore, jealousy reflects the obsession state of human nature. If a person has the jealousy of the consciousness, its damage may not be too big; if a person inside jealousy rufen, but he was unaware, or thought it reasonable, even regarded it as a holy and sacred emotion or behavior, it is the fulfillment of Gods mission, that we really want to sigh his inner darkness where he Qishen, the damage is so great! Psychology has a term called rationalization, refers to a kind of defense mechanism of the heart, for people to make their own peace of mind, without irritation or pain, will unconsciously choose not to face the truth, but through repression and denial, projection distortion, etc. to avoid. This way is manifested in doctrine, which may b