教你锻炼好的口才（Teach you to exercise good eloquence）.doc

教你锻炼好的口才（Teach you to exercise good eloquence） Remember, speak, reduce struggle for 30 years First: dont think its excusable to stay in the comfort zone of your mind. Everyone has a comfort zone in this region is very self, do not want to be disturbed, do not want to be push, and unfamiliar faces do not want to talk, people do not want to be accused of not willing to do things in accordance with the time limit, do not want to take the initiative to care for others, do not want to think about someone else what did not think. It is very easy to understand in the age of students, sometimes even told the students that cold, personality these words, as a compliment. On the contrary, however, after work, you should try to change this situation. Otherwise, you will soon become the only object at the cocktail party that doesnt pay attention or is likely to have hormonal disorders because of stress. But if you can quickly break the comfort zone of your student days, and deal with business, people, and public opinion more quickly than others, you will soon come to the fore. At the meeting, a stay in the heart of the comfort zone people will listen to the leadership of the negative words, negative on standby, is superior to the dead things, but never care about anything other than the matter, not to think of one more step, let the next others work easier. The comfort zone and the courage to dare to break, at the appropriate time to put forward their own views and do not understand, and your work as soon as possible after get the approval and guidance, and to accept criticism and adjustment. (Note: never wait for someone to say what you think, which is typical of the former.) At work, the current meets a new co-worker who pretends to fail to see and continues his work. Little wonder, however, that the new colleague soon became his superior. The latter introduces himself generously and politely and understands the relationship between the other person and himself. At the party,