家有千金的爸爸们才会懂这6件事.docx

家有千金的爸爸们才会懂这6件事6 Things Only Dads With Daughters Would UnderstandOne of the greatest moments in my life was the day my daughter was born. While a lot of men wish for a son to throw a football around or share a love of cars with, raising a girl can be equally rewarding. Here are the reasons why having a daughter has been one of the most fulfilling life experiences for me.我生命中最辉煌的时刻之一就是我女儿出生的那一天。虽然很多男人都希望要个儿子，能够一起玩足球或是分享对汽车的喜爱，但抚养一个女孩子也同样值得。这有一些为什么有一个女儿一直是我最有成就感的生活经历之一的原因。She can be taught how to do anything she puts her mind to可以教她怎样专心去做任何事情Having a daughter carries a lot of responsibility, especially with making sure she does not feel limited by her gender. Early on my wife and I discussed the importance of raising our girl to be open-minded to anything and everything that interests her. I especially wanted to make sure that she felt competent to play any sport or excel in math and science at school, areas that are usually thought of as more male-focused pursuits.有个女儿带来了许多责任，特别是要确保它不会因性别而感到限制。不久之前，我和妻子讨论了把女儿抚养成对感兴趣的事持开放态度的重要性。我尤其想要确保她能够在学校中，感到自己有能力去做任何运动，去学好数学和科学，这些通常更多被认为是男性主导的区域。She is influenced by her parents’ relationship with each other她会被父母间的关系影响到A daughter is aware of how I treat her mom and how we balance our relationship within the context of our daily lives. I try to make sure that she sees that I do my fair share of the chores and help out around the house with cooking and childcare. It is important that she experiences firsthand parents who strive to have equality both professionally and at home as well. My hope is that when she gets old enough she will take a similar model with her own relationships.女儿知道我如何对待她的母亲，以及我们如何在日常生活中平衡我们的关系。我试着确保她看到我会公平分担家务，在家里力所能及得做饭和照顾孩子。重要的是她亲身体验了父母，他们努力在专业上和家里都维持平等。我的希望是，当她长大后，她会采取类似的模式对待她自己的夫妻关系。She needs me most during her teenage years她在青年时期最需要我She has a few more years, but I know that when my daughter becomes a teenager this is the time she needs me the most. I have heard from other dads how difficult these years can b