thejoyluckclub读后感.doc

Reflection of the joy luck club The move The joy luck club, adapted from the novel of the same name title by American born Chinese famous writer, Amy Tan, deeply shocked me for its moving story. It tells us about the different life experience of four pairs of Chinese mother and daughter living in America. The title conveys some signs of luck and joy to us, while the movie, also tells some unpleasant parts—— quarrel, sorrow, disappointment, hardship etc. It reminds me a Chinese old saying——Every family has its cupboard. The joy luck club illustrates a lot of topics, like culture and generation gap, struggling of women in the past and present society and the incredible bond of families etc, which one of them should I emphasize here——the misunderstanding between mother and daughter. The part of this movie impressed me most is the conversation between Lingdo Jong and her daughter Vivily in the beauty salon. Tomorrow is Vivily’s wedding, but her mummy are hurt by her words. They have different ideas about mother’s hair style in wedding. Vivily thought her mother’s hair style is outdated, while mother reckon her daughter are embarrassed because of her obsolete and never cared about her advice. After a bitter quarrel, Vivily said some truth she never tell her mother that indeed she just cares too much about her mother’s attitude, even one word, one sight or one expression from her. Also, the mother let her daughter know who she was and all her press to Vivily comes from her love! It reminds me of my own experiments. I used to discussed intensively with my mother about this. But for now, as I grew, I prefer communication and understanding. Sometimes, our misunderstanding to the families hurt both sides. We are ashamed to express love and inner thoughts. We are stubborn and don’t explain anything. As far as I am concern, it is all because of unawareness of communication to the people we love. After overcome the obstacle of mind, we will have more joy and happiness