中美餐桌礼仪差异——tablemanners资料.doc

进餐时的礼仪：（General?manners?while?dining）? ?? 在家庭式的用餐中常常是把一盘菜传到各位的面前，有时由主人把菜拿到客人面前，稍微讲究一点的会有佣人把菜呈到客人面前。如果是传的话，你要按其他盘子传的同一个方向把菜传给下一位。当你拿到传过来的菜盘子，你可以从中取菜。在取的时候，不要取超过餐桌上人数比例的量，这样的话餐桌上的每一个人都能得到一份。如果你不想吃传过来的菜，那就把它递给下一位，但是千万不要解释你为什么不吃或者作什么评论。如果是有人把菜盘子端给你，他会问你是否需要，你可以简单地回答“是的，请给一些”或者“谢谢，我不需要”。（? When?a?dish?is?offered?from?a?serving?dish?(a.k.a.? family?style),?as?is?the?traditional?manner,?the?food?may?be?passed?around?or?served?by?a?host?or?staff.?If?passed,?you?should?pass?on?the?serving?dish?to?the?next?person?in?the?same?direction?as?the?other?dishes?are?being?passed.?Place?the?serving?dish?on?your?left,?take?some,?and?pass?to?the?person?next?to?you.?You?should?consider?how?much?is?on?the?serving?dish?and?not?take?more?than?a?proportional?amount?so?that?everyone?may?have?some.?If?you?do?not?care?for?any?of?the?dish,?pass?it?to?the?next?person?without?comment.?If?being?served?by?a?single?person,?the?server?should?request?if?the?guest?would?like?any?of?the?dish.?The?guest?may?say?Yes,?please,?or?No,?thank?you.）? ?? 当为进餐人士服务的时候，上菜都是从进餐者的左边放到他（她）的前面；而撤盘子的时候，都是从进餐者的右边拿走。但是对于饮料，可以从左右的任何一方呈上和撤离。（When?serving,?serve?from?the?left?and?pick-up?the?dish?from?the?right.?Beverages,?however,?are?to?be?both?served?as?well?as?removed?from?the?right-hand?side）? ?? 在喝汤的时候，用汤匙由靠近你的一处开始，向远离你的方向打汤。不要把整个汤匙放入嘴里来喝汤，而是在汤匙的边上喝汤。如果汤碗里只剩一点儿汤了，你可以用不拿汤匙的手把汤碗靠近你的一边略略提起，这将使你比较容易把余下的汤流入你的汤匙。（Dip?your?soup?spoon?away?from?you?into?the?soup.?Eat?soup?noiselessly,?from?the?side?of?the?spoon.?When?there?is?a?small?amount?left,?you?may?lift?the?front?end?of?the?dish?slightly?with?your?free?hand?to?enable?collection?of?more?soup?with?your?spoon）??? 如果光用叉子把食物叉起来有困难的话，可以用一小片面包或者餐刀帮忙；但是千万不要直接用手。（If?you?are?having?difficulty?getting?food?onto?your?fork,?use?a?small?piece?of?bread?or?your?knife?to?assist.?Never?use?your?fingers?or?thumb）? ?? 按美国人的习惯，你不一定要吃餐桌上所有的菜，而且到最后你盘子里的菜没有吃完，也不是不礼貌的。不要询问别人为什么不吃某个菜，或者询问别人为什么不把菜吃完（It?is?acceptable?in?the?United?States?not?to?accept?all?offerings,?and?to?not?finish?all?the?food?o