老板为什么不喜欢你？10件最让老板光火的事.doc

老板为什么不喜欢你？10件最让老板光火的事 Apparently about half of employees say they ‘hate their boss’. But as I said the shoe could just as easily be on the other foot. If you don’t like your boss – maybe they don’t like you either. 很显然接近半数的职员都说他们“讨厌自己的老板”。但我说过，人同此心，心同此理，假如你不喜欢你的老板，那么老板或许也不怎么喜欢你。 Dr Susan Nicholson: Organisational psychologist and partner at Mentors Psychology has researched the ten things a boss hates about employees: 苏珊·尼克尔斯博士是组织心理学家，她研究出了老板对于员工最讨厌的10件事： 1. You’re unreliable 1.你不靠谱 Missing deadlines, saying one thing doing another and has an excuse for everything – bosses hate that. They just want you to get the job done and on time. 错过期限、说一套做一套、做错什么事儿都有借口——老板讨厌这些东西。他们只是希望你能把事情做好，而且准时。 2. You won’tfessup to mistakes 2.死不认错 Blaming the other person or trying to cover mistakes up, instead of just owning up to it and working out how to fix it. This shows that someone is weak of character if they don’t take responsibility. Which ultimately is the ‘number one career killer’. 指责别人或者试图掩盖错误，而不是勇敢地承担并努力解决问题。某人如果不敢承担责任就显露了他软弱的性格。这最终会成为扼杀你职业生涯的“罪魁祸首”。 3. You gossip too much 3.太八卦 On Facebook, Instant Messenger or at the coffee machine – it doesn’t matter how. Talking about people behind their back, stirring up trouble or undermining what the boss is setting out to achieve. 在Facebook上、即时聊天软件上又或是在咖啡机旁——不管在哪儿。在别人背后说闲话、搬弄是非又或是动摇军心。 4. Nothing’s ever good enough for you 4.看什么都不顺眼 I call this one the black hat! They are going to rain on anyone’s parade just because they can. The employee who constantly gripes, points out that new ideas are destined to fail or sits in meetings scowling and smirking. Negativity is like a cancer – spreading and rotting what the positive people are achieving. 我把这种人称为黑帽子！他们时刻准备着给每个人泼凉水。这种员工成天抱怨、总是说某个新点子注定会失败、开会的时候坐在那儿愁眉不展，还时不时地冷笑。消极得有如癌症病毒——到处蔓延、并且腐坏那些积极的人们所取得的东西。 5. You hate change 5.顽固不化 How can you be a fast growth business – growing organically – without constantly challenging the status quo and doing things differently. I could not imagine what it