男女沟通的区别(英文版ppt).ppt

communication differences between men and women * Background: Mary returned home exhausted, she wanted to share her feelings with her husband. Mary said: so much work, I have no personal time ??????Tom said: You should rest, do what you like ??????Mary said: But I like my job, but they are hoping that I will do everything in a short period of time ??????Tom said: Do not listen them, just do what you can do, it will be fine. ??????Mary said: I did just that, I can not believe, I even forgot to call my aunt ??????Tom said: Do not worry, she should understand that youre busy. ?? ??? ?Mary said: Do you know how she got it? She needs me. ??????Tom said: Youre so worried about, you look so unhappy. ??????Mary said angrily: Im not unhappy, you could just listen to me ? ??????Tom said: Im listening. ??????Mary said: Why am I still so tired of it? After talking: Mary had just come home looking forward to the relax and comfort, even more disappointed, Tom also disappointed not know exactly where something had gone wrong, he wanted to help, but the strategy to solve the problem ,but this did not work……. Let consider the problems in dialogue of Mary and Tom : ???Mary communication purpose: get of husband emotional resonance and psychological comfort. ??Tom communication purpose: solution to the problem of his wife. ???Reasons for different purposes: they do not understand each other, different goals of communication, all this led to the fact that they were not satisfied. Common communication problems: ?? men think that they can repair all, they solve the problem ,does not pay attention to womens feelings (2) women are trying to change attitudes in the family, criticism and unsolicited advice, correct men mistakes Men and women communicate different purposes: ?Woman: caring, understanding, respect, loyalty, identity, comfort Men: trust, acceptance, gratitude, praise, affirmation,