和喜欢读书女孩谈恋爱.docVIP

和喜欢读书女孩谈恋爱 　　Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes. She has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read， who has had a library card since she was twelve. 　　Find a girl who reads. You’ll know that she does because she will always have an unread book in her bag. She’s the one lovingly looking over the shelves in the bookstore， the one who quietly cries out when she finds the book she wants. You see the weird chick1） sniffing the pages of an old book in a second hand book shop？ That’s the reader. They can never resist smelling the pages， especially when they are yellow. 　　She’s the girl reading while waiting in that coffee shop down the street. If you take a peek at her mug， the non-dairy creamer is floating on top because she’s kind of engrossed2） already. Lost in a world of the author’s making. Sit down. She might give you a glare， as most girls who read do not like to be interrupted. Ask her if she likes the book. 　　Buy her another cup of coffee. 　　Let her know what you really think of Murakami3）. See if she got through the first chapter of Fellowship. Understand that if she says she understood James Joyce’s Ulysses4） she’s just saying that to sound intelligent. Ask her if she loves Alice or she would like to be Alice. 　　It’s easy to date a girl who reads. Give her books for her birthday， for Christmas and for anniversaries. Give her the gift of words， in poetry， in song. Give her Neruda5）， Pound6）， Sexton7）， Cummings8）. Let her know that you understand that words are love. Understand that she knows the difference between books and reality but by god， she’s going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book. It will never be your fault if she does. 　　She has to give it a shot9） somehow. 　　Lie to her. If she understands syntax， she will understand your need to lie. Behind words are other things： motivation， value， nuance10）， dialogue. It will