中考英语阅读理解(二)　观点建议.docxVIP

阅读理解(二)　观点建议 A　[2018·石景山一模] In life we sometimes have disagreements with people.It could be with your parents, or with a friend.When this happens, the important thing is to try not to let a calm(平静的) discussion turn into a heated argument.But of course this is easier said than done. The first thing is that the way you begin the conversation is very important.Imagine you are a student and you share a flat with another student who you think isnt doing her share of the housework.If you say,“Look, you never do your share of the housework.What are we going to do about it?”, the discussion will very soon turn into an argument.Its much more helpful to say something like,“I think wed better have another look about how we divide up the housework.Maybe theres a better way of doing it.” The second piece of advice is simple.If youre the person who is in the wrong, just admit(承认) it! This is the easiest and best way to avoid an argument.Just apologize(道歉)to your flatmate, your parents, and move on.The other person will have more respect for you in the future if you do that. And the final tip is that if necessary, call“Time Out”, like in a sports match.If you think that an argument is getting out of control, then you can say to the other person,“Listen, Id rather talk about this tomorrow when weve both calmed down.” You can then continue the discussion the next day when perhaps both of you are feeling less angry.That way there is much more chance that you will be able to reach an agreement. One last important thing.Some people think that arguing is always bad.This is not true.Conflict(冲突) is a normal part of life, and dealing with conflict is an important part of any relationship, whether its three people sharing a flat, or just two good friends.If you dont learn to argue properly, then when a real problem comes along, you wont be prepared to face it together.Think of the smaller arguments as training.Learn how to argue cleanly and fairly.It will help your relationship become s