人际交往与沟通技巧（Interpersonalandcommunicationskills）.pdf

人际交往与沟通技巧（Interpersonalandcommunicationskills）

Interpersonalrelationshipisaverydelicatething.People

withpsychologicalharmonyaregoodatcommunicatingwith

peopleandresolvingsocialconflicts.Practiceshowsthatthe

moreharmoniousapersonspsychology,thebetterthe

interpersonalrelationship.Onthecontrary,thestateofmind

ispoor,formingsomebarriersandbarriers,whichhinder

peoplefrommakingfriendsandadaptingtosocietytosome

extent.

Characteristicsofinterpersonalcommunication

Interpersonalcommunicationisthebasicneedofanindividual.

Inamodernsocietycharacterizedbycompetitionand

cooperation,interpersonalcommunicationhasthreeremarkable

characteristics:

First,humanization.ThiswasshownintheSichuanearthquake

inWenchuan.Aftertheearthquake,oursloganisisis

isthefirst,othersaresecondary,whichshowsouraffirmation

ofhumannature.

Second,civilization.Asthesayinggoes:menandwomenmatch,

workisnottired.Infact,Ithinkmenandwomenmatch,men

suffer.Whatsthereasonthen?Becauseifyouarepoliteand

courteous,youshouldgiveprioritytoladies.Forexample,the

elevatorcomes,shouldbeadvancedtoMS,itshouldbeMs.out

first,theprovisionsinforeigncountriesisthatwespeakof

etiquette;andbetweenmenandwomeninlove,talktoeatmeal,

paythebill,youcannotsaythatthewomanfirst,shouldpay

aboyfriend;andthelastnewsreportedthatTalibancaughta

bunchofpeopleashostages,menandwomenhaveafemale,the

deadmandiedseveral,themalepreferred.Allthebadplaces,

menfirst,goodthings,thatsladiesfirst.Therefore,people

arecivilized,thentheman